Today's Strong Running Mama will prove to you all that you should never give up.
For real. Just check out this story . . .
Diane Montes Harris is a 46-year-old mother of two (Calvin, 20, and Elaine, 19) who works in sales. Both her husband and her son are in the New York Army National Guard -- her son is currently stationed in Kuwait and her husband spent 2012 in Bahrain.
She is also
fast. Diane has a marathon PR of 3:53:33 and right now, she is training for the Boston
Marathon and will run seven half-marathons in the first half of 2014. Check out her fast times (PRs):
Marathon, 3:53:33
Half marathon: 1:47:22
Army Ten Miler: 1:20:42
5K: 23:01
Impressive, right? Yes, for sure. However, even more impressive (to me, at least) and extremely inspirational is where Diane was
before she posted her speedy times.
In 1999, Diane was skiing with friends at West Mountain in icy conditions. As she says:
"I volunteered to check things out and determine the safest route
down. I stopped at a juncture and did a 'Suzy Chafee swish' (if you ever
saw the old Chapstick commercials). My right leg and ski turned. My left
leg turned -- but not the ski. There was lots of incredible pain. After a stretcher run down
the mountain, they took me to Glens Falls Hospital where they pumped me
with A LOT of morphine and determined they didn't know where to start."
Diane would later learn that one place they started was to consider amputation.
Fortunately, that didn't happen:
"I didn't know about the
original prognosis or plans until after the heavy sedation lifted. I was
not in decision-making mode; luckily the orthopedic surgeon had a plan.
It
involved dealing with acute compartment syndrome (swelling due to
trauma) and an external fixator (looks like a bird cage, they will use
this to treat spinal/neck injuries in motorcycle accident victims, for
instance). I was only 'freaked out' when, after a couple of weeks, the
doctor said I'd never run again and would always walk with a limp! That
was unacceptable to me. My kids were 4 and 5 1/2 at the time . . . I was a
single mother then, and there were many things I both needed and planned
to do with them that involved a high activity level! I never learned
the status of my ACL or MCL; I asked, and the doctor said, 'You don't
want to know.' That was probably the right answer."
Diane was in the hospital for two
weeks with a compound fracture of the tibia and fibula, and shattered tibial
plateau. She spent six months in an external fixator and seven months on crutches. Gradually, she was able to walk without crutches or a cane.
"First it was .1 mile (I remember that one in
particular). Then .25 miles. Then a half mile. Eventually I worked up to
walking 4-5 miles a day. One day I walked
about 12 miles, just because. Then I joined a gym and in addition to weight training I walked on the treadmill. Then I wondered if I could
run . . . worked up a walk/run pattern for a while and got to 2 miles
straight.
Eventually
I started running outside and about
the same time talked to a couple of family friends who were running the
SEFCU Labor Day 5K. One of these friends and I then ran a 5K together every month for the following year except either January or February.
Later that year (2010), I tried the Great Pumpkin Challenge 10K. Then
another friend talked me into the 2011 Mohawk Hudson Half Marathon.
That was so much fun, I had to do a full. I bombed that at 4:10
(injured, sister with breast cancer, husband deployed in Bahrain, more
excuses available if needed) so to redeem myself I then ran 4 marathons
in 4 months in 2013 (Feb through May), and became a Marathon Maniac
before running last
year's 5th in October.
So I credit/blame my
friend Frank for encouraging me to do my first series of 5Ks, my friend
Cynthia for getting me into distance ("why bother with the Boilermaker
15K? Just do a half marathon!") and my husband for buying me a Garmin."
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| Smiling her way through the Mohawk-Hudson River Marathon |
Pretty awesome -- for anyone, let alone someone who almost lost her leg and who was in an external fixator for six months!
Diane has had to deal with some running injuries as well. Last fall, before the Mohawk-Hudson Marathon she had really bad Plantar Fasciitis for which she went to a physical therapist for intense calf massage that helped get her through.
Some of Diane's favorites:
Running gear: "Yaktrax (Pro version) – they have made winter running possible!"
Place to run: "Anywhere flat. I live in a hilly area, so anytime I can get a break from hills I’m happy!"
Race: "Army Ten Miler"
Time to run: "I'm almost exclusively a morning runner – except when including hill/speed workouts with training partners. It’s
easier to prioritize when running early in the day – the rest of the
world may change what happens as the day goes on, but early mornings are
mine."
Most
memorable running achievement: "I ran four marathons between February
and May 2013, qualifying as a 'Marathon Maniac' and the March marathon
yielded a BQ time!"
Yeah, that would seem a bit memorable to me!
One thing that has helped Diane run all of these marathons is having training partners.
"For my first half marathon in 2011, I trained with a woman
who became a good friend – and remains one of my dearest friends. She
suggested I join a training team for my first marathon; many of the
folks from the 2012 training group are still my training partners and
good friends, and we now travel together to other races. There’s
something about the support, motivation, camaraderie – something that
happens as you go through the trenches together – that makes the finish
line so much more special. Not only are you celebrating your own
accomplishment, but the triumphs of those around you. And on rough days
or after a rough finish, you don’t have to explain yourself -- you know
that someone understands exactly what you’re going through."
As someone who used to run alone all the time, but now values running and training with friends, I believe Diane is right on!
Speaking of running with friends . . . I asked Diane what "strong running mama" means to her:
"To me, that means two things: First, a woman who’s
willing and able to give herself the gift of fitness, health, strength,
accomplishment – not at the expense of family responsibilities, but as
an integral part of who she is/her identity within the family (it’s very
easy to always put everyone’s needs first and run out of time for
oneself); second, we all know our kids learn by watching what we do, not
what we say. Placing a value on physical activity and health, and
demonstrating how to work that in as an important part of life is a HUGE
life lesson. (i.e., my daughter completed the Mohawk Hudson Half
Marathon in 2013!)"
Yup. Totally agree.
And I am sure that Diane has set a great example for her kids -- and probably for most of us who've read her story! I'm sure there are many people who would have accepted their doctor's word that they'd never run again and would only walk with a limp. But not Diane. She had a busy life to lead so she sure proved that doctor wrong!
Let's hope we could all be that strong.
Thanks for sharing this, Diane. You're an inspiration!
Have a great week, everyone!
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